We all have so much to do, that we can’t possibly get it all done. Sometimes we get so busy with the day-to-day activities – work, chores, carpools, school, homework, etc. – that we neglect the most important things. We oftentimes feel pulled in a lot of different directions. So it’s important we focus on the right things that will help us achieve our goals and purpose.
Therefore, we need to focus on the important. Lee Iacoca has been quoted as saying, “If you want to make good use of your time, you’ve got to know what’s most important and then give it all you’ve got.” So how do you focus on the important? You need to carve out time for your priorities. Rather than prioritize your schedule, schedule your priorities. Actually schedule time on your calendar for the important things.
For example, you may have an important project at work, but you can’t seem to get to it, because you’re spending time answering the phone, responding to e-mails, and helping your co-workers who come to you for assistance. Then block out time on your calendar for your project. Make an appointment with yourself; treat it like a meeting. Forward your phone to voicemail, so you can focus on your important project.
If you say your spouse is important, but you’re more like two ships passing through the night, then schedule a date night once a week. This helps assure you’ll spend quality time together at least once a week.
Spending time together as a family may be important to you, but elusive. Your afternoons and evenings may be spent driving your kids to soccer practice, dance, youth group, and so on. You can’t even remember the last time the whole family had dinner together. If spending time together as a family is important, then schedule family time each week. We do this in my family. Sunday night is family night in our home. We plan a fun activity each week – such as playing a game, watching a movie, going out to dinner, or going out for ice cream.
By planning and scheduling time on your calendar for your important priorities, you’ll feel a greater sense of accomplishment and fulfillment. What important priorities are you neglecting? Identify one priority you’ll spend time on this week, and share with other readers what you’ll do to focus on your important priority.
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